Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Let's agree to cheat on each other

Let's agree to cheat on each other. Isn't that what it really boils down to? A person wants all the perks of being in a monogamous relationship but wants permission to cheat without the feelings of guilt. Many women claim they are the initiators of these relationships but to me, it sounds very male oriented in nature.

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  1. This stuff disgusts me and I don't even want to think about it. I truly don't think any decent, respectful person would participate in this stuff. I think it is totally immoral and freaky. One man is all I need and all God ever told me to have. We call this adultery (sin) and so does the Lord. I am a God-fearing woman, I have more respect for myself and my sweetie than to do that.With all the HIV cases I really don't see why anyone would even think about participating in something like this. I'm almost afraid for anyone to hold my hand, never mind have sexual relations with them. Not to mention that my man would probably kill me and I surely don't intend to burn in Hell for doing this mess.What has happened to people's morals??? My body was not made for that type of thing but a LOVE thing!!! The garbage some people have in their minds or will do! All I can say is Lord have mercy!!!

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  2. Assuming we a talking about consenting adults, they should be able to live they way they choose. Did God really speak to you? Did you ask him why men in the Bible have multiple wives? Your post is so judgmental, and I thought only God could judge. --JK

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  3. is it still "cheating" if it is agreed upon? an interesting question...

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  4. I guess it depends how you look at it. Although there were many other definitions on Dictionary.com, I chose the ones to suit my purpose.

    cheating: not faithful to a spouse or lover; "adulterous husbands and wives"; "a two-timing boyfriend"

    unfaithful:Not true or constant to one's sexual partner.

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  5. PERSONALLY I FEEL THAT IN ANY FULFILLING, AND HEALTHY MARRIAGE THE THOUGHT OF POLYAMORY IS NOT A SUBJECT OFTEN PONDERED. MARRIAGE IS A GOOD THING , AND SO IS MONAGOMY. THE FACT THAT THERE ARE INDEED POLAMOROUS RELATIONSHIPS IN MARRAIGES DOES NOT SURPRISE ME. EVENTUALLY PEOPLE TEND TO PERVERT ALL THAT IS GOOD. THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE IS PERFECTLY DESIGNED AND RECOGNIZED BY GOD,BUT PERVERTED BY MAN.
    AS FREE MORAL AGENTS IT SEEMS THAT WISDOM,AND COMMON SENSE SO OFTEN ELUDES US. FOR THOSE WHO CHOOSE TO GET MARRIED, AND THEN CHOOSE TO SLEEP WITH OTHER PEOPLE , WHY BOTHER GETTING MARRIED. MORE PRACTICLE TO REMAIN SINGLE THAN TO PERVERT WHAT WE ALL CALL MARRAIGE.

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  6. DAMNIFIKNOW, actually the thought of polyamory not just in marriages but also in relationships(couples not married) is becoming more and more common. You say monogamy is good.But in the same comment you add why get married if you want to experience polyamory. If remaining single allows one to participate in polyamory then why is polyamory not good also. Is it okay to sleep around if you are not married. Is sleeping around when not married perfected by God? Or is it okay not to obey God because you are not married?

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